Dating someone long distance
The truth (but sadly) cheating on long distance relation is very common but it depends on the quality of your relationship, if you have happy-loving and trust each other relationship it might be not possible if he is cheating right?But if you always fight or argue while you still together, there might be possibilities if he is cheating.The conclusion you should do is make an open confersation with him and explain him that telling people the relationship status is not a shame.And by being so far away, doesn’t mean he can cheating on you!This is like how they get rid of their couple without getting exposed and put the blame on someone.Puts you into a fight till you can’t handle it anymore and then on some point you choose to stop. If he ever gave you a sign like this, I would recommend you to check out what he’s been up to in his new place, did he see someone else and ask about his behavior to his colleague.You feel that your relationship turned cold and boring and did he say cute or sweet text to you or you used to say I love you or I miss you or I need you often but then suddenly decreased or even stopped?This could be clear indicator that he cheating on you, the suspect (or in this case your boyfriend) would feeling guilty to say ‘I love you’ to you since he started having an affair with other girl, even for him, it gave him the feeling that he didn’t deserve you or you’re to good to him.
Communication in long distance relationship is very important since we could get miscommunication and it will lead to fighting to each other.He is scared that he get exposed by you whilst you visiting him, this is a clear sign that something is wrong with him.Try to give him a surprise by visit him without telling him and see his expression. On this case, he doesn’t want you to know about his life in his new place, new work, new friends.But for some people long distance relationship could be challenging, but for other long distance relationship could be a disaster.You’d spent your whole time wondering what’s your boyfriend doing over there, or get jealous because someone tagged your boyfriend on their Instagram or Facebook.