Dating like a french woman
For women, I recommend that you not be overtly sexy or flashy; it would not be subtle and take the fun out of flirting.
Remember in Rule 5, I told you not to be too hasty.
That’s when “French Women Don’t Get Fat,” the sanctimonious anti-dieting diet book by Mireille Guiliano — followed by “French Women Don’t Get Facelifts and French Children Don’t Throw Food” — was released to worldwide acclaim.
Suddenly, women as a collective seemed to decide that yes, they’d really rather be French sil-vous-plait and no, they have no problem wearing exclusively horizontal stripes and red lipstick and never paying for a gym membership — French women don’t work out, didn’t you know that? A flurry of books raced into publication promising to help you become a Parisian “no matter where you are.” Brands like French Girl Organics offered to help you achieve the effortless no-makeup-makeup look of, um, French girls.
Okay, you know you can charm in a conversation, you’re intellectually up to speed, but it’s still not enough.
You should know how to laugh, that’s the secret of “flirt”, and I can tell you the French love a good laugh!
Do not forget: you only have one spectator and this person must be seduced by your audacity, lightness and petulance.
A real flirter makes the other person feel special.
Dating rules are highly influenced by the culture and habits of a country and its people. We say what we think and won’t hesitate to complain to state our disappointment. Here are a few things you should do when dating a French girl (These rules work well with European women and ladies in general) – If you go for a dinner date, pick a nice restaurant. Ask her for a place she likes, if you don’t know where to go. (In France we don’t talk about salary as openly as in the US) – Make sure you know what you getting into: kissing or sleeping can very likely mean you’re exclusive. – Learn a few words in French and diffuse them during the date.
I’m a French native with Caribbean origins living in New York for a few years and have seen it all. I remember that episode of Law and Order in which a mother, native from France, was getting crazy and overwhelmed over the abduction of her son. ) What is true though is that most, French girls like lingerie, style and proper manners. French women are not as direct as New York women, when it comes to the dating chase. – If you chose another kind of date, make sure it’s cosy and not too loud. Open the exclusivity subject beforehand so you don’t get any surprise. (you may quickly run out of baseball bases;-)) – Go with the flow.
I’ve met people from different countries, different American states etc. They excused her behavior by the fact that she was French. If you want to be more subtile, tell her that you know the French rules ( See explanations below).
I’m in a good position to talk about France and New York Dating. ) First of all, there are a lot of prejudices about French people, that I need to take down. As in every Country you have girls that will get in bed more or less quickly not particularly French girls.