Dating a passive woman
I just couldn’t keep it up after 9 months that he would never make a plan or cancel due to work.I got the vibe he just wasn’t that interested in me and broke up with him.After 6 months I asked him what we were and he said “you want me to be your boyfriend” then we are boyfriend/girlfriend!Never took initiative to plan anything fun and when he did something would always come up and we had to go to Plan B. You, apparently, have done both of those things, Michelle.But while you’ve adjusted your take-charge attitude, you haven’t adjusted for the fact that you’re NOT dating a take-charge guy.
He was not bothered by the age difference but could easily go 2-3 weeks without seeing me…would call me every day and text every day.And if, in fact, he’s just not that into you, you’ll figure that out quickly, too.For all of the women who are reading this who would not be able to tolerate such behavior from your guy and prefer a take-charge man, do yourself a favor and pick up a copy of “Why He Disappeared”. I wish I read this 6 months ago when I was dating a beta male cause I thought he just wasnt into me and we had many conversations about that.He’s kind, attentive and affectionate- when we’re together.He communicates with me daily, mostly through text message, to which I always respond warmly.