Concious dating

He loves spending time with you, but may want to call it an early night instead of going to the next big party.

Try to find the balance between going out and staying in.

At the end of the day, I need to do what’s best for me.

Dull conversation, awkward silences, unreturned texts or phone calls, the absence of desirable matches--it's a routine that often leaves people feeling exhausted and powerless.

I had a normal childhood, but I have been living in the “adult world” since I was a kid. I was around adults all my life -- events, parties, meetings -- so I really knew it no other way.

The only thing probably missing in my life is a partner, a published book and an owned property… To elaborate even further, I’m an only child, and growing up, I never had many close friends. I was teased and picked on a lot from the kids at school. I guess that’s where I began the attraction for the older man type, and it used to freak my mother out.

I always seem to date guys between 10 to 20 years older than me, and from my relationships comes some of the best memories and experiences.

I still get the common response from my friends: “He’s too old for you! ” I’ve also had a few people in my life suggest that I do it because I am a "gold digger."So, the broad answer is this: To clarify, I’m not dating older men because I am a “gold digger.” It’s more important for me to pull my own weight and be financially stable.

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